Really 65%? That seems too high. Do you have a source for this? I would have guessed 20-50%.
Using Forbes Networth of 12.2B (April 11, 2015) and ~35M shares of TSLA @ $210 and 28% stake in solarcity (27M shares @ $56) you get a net $3.3B unaccounted for.
So, if SpaceX is worth $12B, musk owns...