check if your 10-30 socket is actually wired with #10/3 wire (10 gauge + red + black + white + ground - in my case the ground was ground to the box and I used a multimeter to check that it was indeed grounded (+120 volts each phase to ground). So i just changed mine to 14-30 (I have a gas dryer). Then used the official 14-30 adapter. Works great charges at 18mi/hr which is totally fine.
So far have put off the 14-50 install which will require a new set of wires to be pulled (which reading the forums #6 gauge wire is recommended?)
Always double and triple check all power is indeed shutoff using a multimeter to test while it's on and confirm that it's off.
As for 14-30 extension cords there is one on amazon (
AC Connectors NEMA 14-30 4 Prong Dryer SOOW 10/4 30A 250Volt Anti-Weather, Oils, Acids and Chemicals Rubber Extension Cord (10FT) - - Amazon.com) but I didn't like the rubbery smell plus I figured a 14-50 cord has much more versatility if I go on a roadtrip or do upgrade to 14-50 later on.
So I have this : 14-30 socket --> 14-30 to 14-50 pigtail from amazon --> 18' 14-50 cord --> 14-50 to 14-30 receptacle --> tesla 14-30 adapter to Tesla charger. (Kind of a mess but this ensures that the car will never attempt to charge more than 24A since using a genuine Tesla 14-30 adapter. I could hook directly to the wall but the cord is a bit short so that's why this extension). If anyone is interested in the parts I ordered I can list those from amazon.