Next time you get tires, will you be getting these [Proxes 4] again?
I'll certainly look around at other options at the time (if tread wear is as promised, it will be a couple of years in the future); but right now I'm thinking yes, I would get them again. Things have dried out a bit and I've tried them more including in performance mode. Sometimes the TC light doesn't come on at all; usually it does a little, but not for long. Sometimes it's on for a while...while annoying, I don't really need the extra speed, and it's probably less annoying than changing the tires every few months and being reminded that I'm spending far more on rubber than electricity. It's kind of the principle (waste, in addition to price) of the thing, ya know?
I really should switch the fronts first to be sure, but that's got the same problem...the darting isn't that big of a deal, and I hate to throw away good fronts (they probably still have at least 10k left on them) just to test it out.
I haven't tried the Continentals you mentioned, but I did look at them. On paper, at least, the Proxes 4 seemed slightly better all around. Using just paper, I had narrowed my options to either the Proxes 4 or the AD07's. I looked at a lot of factors (grip, price/treadwear, wet performance, noise, ride, etc) but the grip vs price/treadwear tradeoff was the reason I was looking around, so that is what the decision came down to for me.