@DocZ you are very open and honest about your views and I respect that. I have no need to argue your convictions.
A couple of clarifications on my own points of view:
I guess this is one fundamental difference between us. I can and do appreciate how he has rocked the industry and will continue to believe it is exactly because of Tesla that BEVs are finally making headway internationally. It is not unlike I appreciate how Steve Jobs helped transform both the GUI and later the music and smartphone industries with his charisma and vision. It is just not in my personal nature to give anyone (be it Musk or Jobs) a free pass based on those achievements.
I will discuss the good as good and the bad as bad, and for me that is the objective way of looking at things. I have no problem with fandom, I'm gushing about things at times like a fanboy too, but I do not consider it healthy to give anyone free passes. You know what they say about absolute power. Getting free passes on everything is akin to absolute power.
Indeed. No other car company at this time is selling a compelling large-battery BEV in the premium segment, nor offering an upgradeable autonomous driving system that has the potential to self-drive at some stage. You will get no argument from me there and that is one reason I am driving a new Model X with EAP and FSD.
Also, you get no argument from me that Tesla gets away with many things simply because the market lacks options, other than waiting.
I guess the point where our point of view really diverge is what that unique offering and unique position Tesla has really means. For you, it is - by your own description anyway - free pass on everything for Elon and, I guess by extension, Tesla, because that offering is so unique. There is nothing else, this is so special and important, that nothing else that might be going on around it matters. I get that and certainly you are not alone on TMC.
I do not wish to change your mind, but I would still suggest, overall, that it may not be a sustainable or the wisest possible approach for Tesla to take for a wider audience, though. If they wear their loyalty thin by stretching what their audience has to accept from them, that audience will be more (not less) likely to move elsewhere once those other options finally emerge. Fool me once, shame on me, kind of stuff. It may also result in more people simply waiting.
There was a time when I wouldn't have ever thought my next car purchase would not be a Tesla. Now I am considering it. Not because the Audis and Jaguars of this world are so great, but because for me Tesla has come down many pegs from the stuff of dreams to mere mortals - and soon there will be many mere mortals to choose from in this world.
Loyalty begets loyalty, to quote Elon Musk. One free pass too many does not.
I worry about the day that Elon cried wolf one time too many and nobody believed him. We can already see that happening in some conversations.