So just an update. We drove back from Florida to Texas, the wheels stayed on. I managed to reach someone at corporate Tesla Corporate Resolutions and after explaining how unsafe the vehicle was and that we feel checking the bolts from time-to-time is now on our maintenance list, they felt it was better to just forward us to a service center and have the car fully inspected.
We're not expecting them to pull all of the bolts off the car - as someone mentioned, that would probably create more problems than fixing them. We just want to make sure that anything that can fall off the car is securely tightened to the car and will not "unmount" from the vehicle.
Since then I recommended to the national transportation safety board that Tesla recalled only specific vehicles by Vin # for this issue, but failed to include ours. We asked Corporate Tesla to just provide us with a safer vehicle, and they decided that us pushing to have any/all teslas under 25,000 miles recalled was cheaper than just providing us with a safer vehicle. It sucks, but if it saves your life, or the passengers in your car, you can hate me later. The transportation board takes these things seriously and our car should 100% have been on the recall list.
Also we just found out, our vehicle has had a safety recall from Sep 2022 and Tesla has not notified us of the recall. I had to dig it up on a website somewhere and it says our vehicle was never serviced for it. This being 5 months ago, the car has gone through 2 tesla service centers and an onsite technician, and apparently Tesla is the only company not keeping track of safety recalls on vehicles.
You should go to the National Transportation Safety Board website and look up your Vin #. My wife looked it up on some other site, and there were no recalls; but this site had an incomplete recall that could really hurt someones fingers or hands when the windows roll up (the reverse rollup mechanism when something is blocking the window from going up) - it looks like a lot of cars were recalled for this. We have yet to get any kind of recall notification from Tesla.
I'm just beyond done with ever contacting Tesla for anything. I feel like we should just contact our insurance company and let them handle it from now on.