Well I have had the 19s since Friday and they are a better choice for me. The ride is better for sure. I have the unique experience of 4000 miles on the 21s and now 400 on the 19s. One interesting thing is that you cannot floor the car in the 19s without screeching the tires. They do not grip as well as the 21s. That being said, I only floored the car to show off to friends. As long as I go with a rolling start, then I can still floor them. Overall, I am very pleased and even more pleased that the tesla service guys came out the next day to swap the tires. It was great customer service. The guys in Atlanta are extremely nice.