Disconnected grid at 82% today. Output went to 60.6 Hz and solar shut off so I'm on battery only and draining at 82% and falling.
I dont think any of this testing you are doing is going to change the fact that, if your powerwalls are full and there is a power outage, they are definitely going to put out a frequency higher than "60.5". In fact, unless you contacted tesla to get them to lower the frequency (which isnt clear to me if you did that or not), they will likely blast out 65 hz.
if you did contact tesla to lower the frequency, the only one I know of on these boards that got them to lower it lower than 62 hz is @gpez, who got them to do it before they somewhat "streamlined" the requests to their tier 2 support to lower the frequency. Most report tesla setting it (after requests to do so) at between 62 and 62.5 hz.
If you didnt make a request for them to lower the max frequency, you likely should start there, because of what @BrettS said. The scenarios you are testing of slowly rising up and having it slowly increase the frequency doesnt mean that is what will happen if the batteries are 97%+.
Of course, if you test when your batteries are full, you are running the risk of causing issues with all your home automation devices etc, as you already experienced, and possibly shorting out some.