Thats what I would want too (for the EV to actively NOT take power from the powerwall. Reading a few threads here, it seems to me that the EV takes power from the powerwall unless you do some time of use scheduling stuff that
@MorrisonHiker mentioned around time of use scheduling.
Even if I ask them to put in an essential loads panel (and I was planning on asking for the whole home option instead of that), and not put the car in that panel, it appears to me that the only time the car wouldnt take from the powerwall if plugged in, would be during a power outage, or if you play around with the scheduling.
I am reading a bunch more on powerwalls since I finally decided to jump in and get one to get the 30% credit that is getting reduced this year (and my wife and I deciding that, yes, we likely will be in this home for at least another 10-12 years, maybe longer).
Hoping to learn more from all you powerwall experts here!