On a non-Tesla (Cadillac), my wife was backing up, and would have brushed against a rose bush if she kept going. It slammed on the brakes in reverse at low speed and scared the crap out of her.
But was that a solid enough threat to warrant AEB? It probably could not tell what kind of object it was, but did not set off the Pedestrian Warning System so it knew it wasn't a person. It does ID humans behind the car as humans.
Perhaps the AEB in the Tesla is looking for a stronger signal reflection than a box would allow. I would have put foil inside or outside of the box.
But kudos for doing the test. Some folk are in deathly fear of something stiffer than a cotton diaper touching their car.
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For the artifact I'd start with a 4' x 8' x 1" sheet of foam from Home Depot ($12), put foil on one side (either), and hold it up with string a duct tape to supports. A lot more work, but will mimic a car reflection better. Maybe even 2 red circles of paper to mimic tail lights.