If you post 'looking for X' and someone messages you directly... even if they have an older account. Even if they have made posts... Even if they seem really nice... Even if the a reverse google image search comes back clean... Do not purchase. VicH and I chatted for awhile, messaged each other, shared pictures, talked about cars - but he's a scammer.
If you really want to make the purchase... reco's to avoid: Only deal locally (pickup and pay in person). Speak to the person on the phone. Call them and ensure their phone isn't a 'text mail subscriber' (used by businesses and scammers). Post the pictures of the product they send and ask what others think of the quality (maybe someone else will be 'sold' the same product'). Confirm their existence (ask for address, verify address matches their name, you can also lookup property tax/owners as well). Pay through a common payment platform as a business transaction (this protects you - to some degree).
If you really want to make the purchase... reco's to avoid: Only deal locally (pickup and pay in person). Speak to the person on the phone. Call them and ensure their phone isn't a 'text mail subscriber' (used by businesses and scammers). Post the pictures of the product they send and ask what others think of the quality (maybe someone else will be 'sold' the same product'). Confirm their existence (ask for address, verify address matches their name, you can also lookup property tax/owners as well). Pay through a common payment platform as a business transaction (this protects you - to some degree).