As you found out if you put your foot down and ask to be treated in a reasonable way, they will oblige.
If anyone is in the market for a CPO car, don't give two cents about what they say their "policies" are. Tell them you will only accept an undamaged car and you will only pay after you have inspected the car carefully.
I can't believe we are even discussing the importance of inspecting a used car that costs about as much as the median US annual income before paying for that car, especially now that they are selling these cars without any meaningful quality standards with some cars that look like they came from a junkyard!
You are right in that they are running a "game" and it is up to the customers who play the "game" to make sure they are not screwed.
My post was in response to someone who seemed shocked when another person posted:
"Wait what!! I was told I wasn’t allowed to see it prior to actually taking ownership of the vehicle!!???(CPO that is!)"
I was backing up what Tesla's stance was on CPO & Used cars.
Keep in mind that at the time we bought the first car it was indeed a CPO and therefore we were buying the Tesla BS sales pitch that it was inspected and they would stand behind the product in the end. After all, when I'm talking to a representative of the company who promises the car is in great condition and anything we find will be addressed am I supposed to call him or her a liar?
The first time they didn't come straight out and say "You can't see it" but instead said things like "We don't know where the car is right now" and "It's being detailed" and other BS lines they tried to feed me the 2nd time too. Super passive aggressive but effective against fist-time Tesla buyers as was evidenced by our first transaction.
It was only after I put my foot down the second time and shrugged off all of the same BS excuses that I was able to walk right out front and examine it. It was funny too because they were using all of the exact same BS excuses of not knowing where it was and going to see and then coming back to say they confirmed it was in detail and to just sign the paperwork. I finally had to tell her to her face "It's that car right there" as I pointed to the car through the front window that they told me they couldn't find and then confirmed it was in detail. It had been sitting there since the moment Lyft dropped us off at the dealership because I was looking for it in the parking lot.
The point is that you can ask for anything as the buyer before you sing paperwork. It's up to them if they want to agree or not. I would assume that in most cases you can strong arm your way to seeing the car beforehand but that's an exception and not the rule. I'm telling you what their policy is for used car sales and this is part of why I want to get the word out so that people do insist on seeing before signing anything binding because Tesla is fleecing people and banking on typical scummy sales tactics which is sad for a company that has said they're trying to change the car buying experience. Well, they are but not for the better.