Upstate NY here.
I noticed my Edit button disappeared a week ago yesterday. I finally called Tesla yesterday. A VIN was "secretly" assigned (ie not revealed to me) on 6/6, and my car shipped on the 8th or 9th. I have yet to receive any email or call from an ISA, my VIN is still not showing on my reservation, and no delivery is scheduled though, like everyone else has noted, I was told delivery is probably late June, early July.
I'd say you probably have a VIN.
I believe that all the cars are being staged. When I talked to the inside sales rep, he told me that, depending when I get on the delivery calendar, my car may go to a regional hub 1st. I read this as we're staging the cars in regional hubs until July 1st.