Aside from being the possible latest release for your car, in general, updates take about 2 months to roll out across the fleet. There will also be various releases that a car won't get for various reasons. So don't worry, you may feel left out, but seldom actually will be.
BUT, you must make sure that your car has Wi-Fi connectivity to download the updates. There are very few updates that will download over 4G and even then, those folks only on 4G will be probably 3 months behind everyone else.
Stop worrying about the updates, they will come. Just plan your trip, maybe up to Burlington this weekend, to enjoy the car and get over the range anxiety.