Yes, technically, point well taken. My view is that Tesla can believe one of two things:
1) customer took delivery of undamaged car, drove it *immediately* to a location with a non-compliant lift, damaged the car, and - within 70 minutes - provided photographic evidence of the damage and has then lied consistently about these events (including sending what must be fraudulent documentation that the springs were installed weeks later); or
2) car was damaged during production, or by the trucker, or the train transporter, or someone who lifted the car during the prep process or while adjusting the bumper, and the damage was discovered an hour after delivery.
I'm not saying #1 is impossible, but it feels like a stretch for Tesla to take such an anti-customer position. It is uncomfortable that they seem to be claiming that I'm trying to defraud them, which rubs me the wrong way. I'm hoping our next conversation is more productive.
Also, FWIW, my detailer doesn't have a lift. I guess I could prove that to Tesla, too. I wonder if my cell phone geotagged my photos, which would prove exactly where I was.
The question I am trying to answer is what the appropriate remedy is.
From Tesla's point of view they are delivering 1000's of these cars and have specific processes in place to prevent exactly this kind of thing from happening. They almost certainly have a record of who transported the car, and they can follow up with that freight company. However, what happens if they follow up with the freight company and they refuse to take responsibility?
You might have to engage executive management at Tesla to make your case, or you can try to start up a small claims case but that's going to be tough due to the number of parties that have been involved since you took possession of the car.
Now, here's my .02.... which might not be popular, but nonetheless.
It is foolish to take deliver of $55,000+ car that has special jack points and a very easy to damage under body and then, knowing this, immediately take the car to shops that might have zero understanding or experience with Tesla model 3.
This would be the case for lower springs, after market wheels, fancy detail, etc....
At a minimum, I would photograph the cars condition including the jack points, point them out to the shop doing the work and make sure they understand there is a right way and a wrong way to lift the car.
Now.... at the end of the day, what's the final outcome.... are you going to hope that the car is going to be scrapped and a replacement vehicle provided since the damage, per Tesla, is not repairable? Will you accept some monetary compensation? It does not appear the damage is something that can be observed in any way while you are using and operating the car.
The lesson learned for others in all of this is to do a very careful inspection of the car BEFORE you drive off. Once you drive off trying to prove this kind of stuff is nearly impossible. If this kind of damage was observed before the car left the lot there would be zero question from anybody that Tesla and their sub-contractors would be responsible for fixing it or getting you another car.