Happy wife happy life brother. Or give up beer for the year and get it out of your social expenses funds
Back in the old days, you can hide those technologies from them. Not anymore. They know how to use WhatsApp, go to forum and sure enough they know how to access this forum.
However, you certainly can do something like, get it now, let them know later and plead I didn't know what I were doing but couldn't get a refund anymore. Here is $14,000 cheque.
The problem is you have already spent money on EAP, so another $2600 is not that much.. Without FSD, you couldn't reap the full benefit.
Done deal! Damn Tesla for making it so easy for the upgrades - only 3 clicks after logged in.