As outdoors mentioned, lots of previous posts on the subject. Automatic washes that make contact with the paint will induce scratches and swirls. So only use these washes if you do not care about scratches and swirls. So called touchless washes will not induce scratches and swirls, but 1) they do not get your paint as clean and 2) they use high pH soaps that will often strip waxes and sealants off your paint.
Personally, I would recommend doing rinseless washes using ONR (Optimum No Rinse) and/or waterless washes using Optimum's OptiClean, Mckees 37 Waterless Wash On The Go, or Meguiars D115 Express Wash and Wax. Just invest in some good quality MicroFiber towels and learn proper washing and drying techniques. You can do a rinsless or waterless wash in about the same time it would take you to drive to your local automatic wash, do the wash, and drive home.
If you get PPF (Paint Protection Film) applied to the entire car, then maybe you could do an automatic wash safely, as the PPF would "heal" any scratches or swirls.