I'm not actually arguing, i'm almost entirely agreeing with you.
Just going through the scene with an eye to see how difficult it is to analyse the scene, in real-time.
In order for the Car to handle this well (i.e. not do an emergency stop when it gets to the barrels) it would need to be already moving out of the lane it's in, at the start of the video (or before), which is about 8 seconds before the actual obstruction (880ft), before it got to the Semi. That's what an attentive, experienced driver would be doing.
I don't believe you can see the barrels at that point. Look at big arrow sign on the left, I don't think you can see it's base, and as you get closer, it appears to get taller. And see the trees come into view, from over the horizon, behind it?
Even if the barrels are above the horizon, at 880ft away (268ft) they are beyond the range of the main forward camera, and radar, and still just beyond the range of the narrow forward camera (if it is being used at the moment?).
Autopilot
Using the main forward camera, the barrels would begin to be in range until 4.4 seconds before impact, which is already pretty late to be able to slow, and get in behind the Semi. (Given it's got to Check Hands, Alert, Signal, Wait, Maneuver).
So realistically, the only way the car can deal with this, is if it could read and understand the signs, before it gets to where the video starts.