Just so everyone is on the same page,
the AEB system currently employed by Tesla is completely disabled as soon as you touch the brakes. That is documented in the release notes.
Automatic Emergency Braking Automatic Emergency Braking — a new Collision Avoidance Assist feature — is designed to automatically engage the brakes to reduce the impact of an unavoidable frontal collision. Automatic Emergency Braking will stop applying the brakes when you press the accelerator pedal, press the brake pedal, or sharply turn the steering wheel. Automatic Emergency Braking is enabled by default. You can temporarily disable this feature via the AUTOMATIC EMERGENCY BRAKING setting in Controls > Settings > Driver Assistance > COLLISION AVOIDANCE ASSIST. Automatic Emergency Braking will re-enable when you next drive. Note: Automatic Emergency Braking operates when you are driving at speeds between 5 mph (8 km/h) and 85 mph (140 km/h).
Tesla's system is missing a feature many other manufacturers have called dynamic braking support. THAT the the feature that will brake harder to avoid a collision when you have already applied the brakes manually, which several people here are assuming happened. She was completely on her own as soon as she tapped the brakes, no AEB functions anymore. I doubt many owners fully grasp that since it is a more common feature on other cars.
And, as I posted in the other thread, if you are interested, the NHTSA is currently proposing adding these systems to their 5 star rating tests:
https://www.gpo.gov/fdsys/pkg/FR-2015-12-16/pdf/2015-31323.pdf Hopefully Teslas system will be more capable when this testing actually starts.