If car lurches forward, then person you hit from behind claims on you, you claim on person who rear ended you. etc etc.
So you take full force, or spread the blame. Tough one, no right answer.
Sorry, but not true. If you stop and then get rammed into the car in front of you, the driver behind you takes the full financial hit.
If you hit the car in front, and immediately get rear-ended because you stopped so suddenly, you take the hit for both.