To clarify, as I tried before: For me this isn't about free stuff. At all.
It is about what it meant to me when I bought my original Tesla. It was special for me. It stands for the choice I made at that time to take a risk with a new company that was pro environment and pro customer, an amazing breath of fresh air compared to any other, and pay a premium to never use gas again. During the process, and after I received the car, I was informed that this special feature would carry over if I would buy any new car.
Now that I am taking Telsa up on that, just 2 years after I bought this car, I am super disappointed how Tesla silently, without any note sent to me, one-sided changed the text in MY account of MY car, and just broke that promise. I am just disappointed in a company that I held in such a high esteem. It's like, wow, so this is how you thank me for spreading the word, getting 4 people to buy a Telsa, and for me upgrading to a newer model after only two years.
I am not expecting a special treatment or a discount, or extra goodies, for being a loyal customer. I am simply asking that was was promised when I bought my car. Seems reasonable and the very minimum to expect from a decent customer service perspective.
And regarding helping with the Tesla expansion, well I think that's what I am doing by buying another car.