I think this is once again a demonstration of the need for some sort of advanced menu options, or something along those lines.
There are clearly many, many instances within the software where Tesla simply makes a choice for us, instead of allowing us to choose for ourselves, probably because it's "cleaner" for software implementation purposes and be cause it won't confuse people who want operating the car, which admittedly already has a lot of complexity to it, to be as simple as possible. The problem is that leaves those of us who want to be able to control absolutely everything we possibly could control, and see every possible bit of information we could see, out in the cold. An advanced menus option, with the choices to go along with it, would solve a lot of problems.