So i should leave on standard and”set ti 100+mph
You don't have to leave it on Standard for ever and ever. Standard is the default setting. It will automatically go back to Standard after you raise or lower the suspension. As you know, you can raise the suspension to High or Very High when you need extra ground clearance, such as when driving on a steep driveway or ramp, in deep snow, or over large speed bumps and parking curbs, and it will set a geolocation tag on that particular place, so your Model S will always raise its suspension on that exact location, (as you can see on your second picture, just below the Ride Height title), but it will always go back to Standard on its own.
The
Automatic Lowering setting in your third photo, (the one you currently have set to 100+ mph) is a different feature.
Here, you can set the speed on which you want your Model S to automatically lower its suspension to its Low ride height (like maybe Highway speeds).
This improves aerodynamics, handling and range. According to your current setting, your Model S will lower its suspension to Low when it reaches 100 or more mph. You can change this speed by clicking Adjust Speed and sliding the selector left or right.
Here you can also choose for your Model S to default its ride height to Low (instead of Standard) if you set this feature' to "Always", or to never automatically lower its ride height if you set it to "Never".