We have this issue also on our 2022 RWD model 3 also. My 2018 AWD version doesn’t have the problem.
The first time it occurred, (started gradually) the car wouldn’t even open with the phone.
Key card was home hours away. Had it towed.
After a lot of back and forth, they replaced the entire computer.
Seemed to have fixed the problem.
Nope….
New computer has been in about two weeks. Problem started coming back again. Starts by just not connecting from time to time for short times. Then gets worse.
Clearly a new computer isn’t the fix.
I’m going to leave WIFI off, and sentry always on, and wait for a firmware fix.