Day 3 of ownership, no phone app. I spoke to a rep at the local SC and he said it could take up to 5 days to activate.
@HotToddy the valet mode is a profile setting that locks the glovebox and trunks and puts the screen in security mode. The valet needs the key card, not the phone app.
My key card works to lock and unlock and drive the car, but like I told the rep, it is like sitting down to a fantastic steak dinner without the utensils...