As promised, I wanted to circle with the group to share my experience. Thanks to many of you, I was able get to a successful outcome.
First, let me say the information provided here are more useful than Tesla’s own Customer Service. A couple of days before my post, I had called Tesla’s 800 Customer Service number, which in turn gave me another number to speak with their Energy Department and email to report my issue. That is where everything went wrong. I.e. no reply, no one to answer the line...
Finally, when I used a number that was posted here, I was able to get through and talk to a couple of knowledgeable and pleasant folks. They helped me with the firmware update. With work from home, I do not use my car as much any more. I waited until i had the chance to recharge a couple of times. The issue appears to have been resolved. No more red lights, no more charge failure errors.
Thanks to all of you!