Yeah! SR+ works for me. I'll add a sub woofer and should be set. Does sitting in traffic for 3 hours burn up more than going 80 for an hour?
No, going 80 for an hour will use way way way more energy than sitting in traffic for 3 hours. But stop and go traffic in any temperature that requires heating do use significant amount of energy.
Here is my experience with the SR+ after 400 miles:
1. Charging is not a problem at all if you have 240V at home, I have a EVSE installed for my Leaf years ago and at over 7KW I can charge from 20% to 80% in 5 hours. With the new update SR+ can SC at 170KW, so unless you go to a V3 SC with no cars sharing the charger you won't see a difference between SR+ and LR.
2. Currently in WA temperature is around 40F and my commute is 38 miles round trip (90% highway), I charge to 80% and it'll take 3 days to go down to the low 20% for me to recharge. So far my average consumption is about 278Wh/mi which isn't bad consider I have to use heating on the commutes (I wish the 3 has a heat pump like my Leaf though).
3. Interior wise I think all the trims have the same interior lights, 2020 cars won't have the door pocket light no matter the trim, not sure about the footwell light though. I also rarely have passengers in the rear so heated rear seats means nothing to me.
4. I'm in the 30 day trial period of premium connectivity and for me it's not worth $10, even standard navigation is good enough, Tesla's premium navigation will show traffic info but it seems to be less complete compare to my phone's Google maps, and you still can't pick different routes, Google Earth is more of a distraction. Music streaming options are limited, and you can't use the browser to play video for passengers on the trip anyway so it won't be much LTE data.
5. I get all weather mats in all of my cars so factory mat also means nothing to me, except needing a place to store them.
6. I do like good speakers and the standard one is just okay, I wouldn't mind spend somewhere around $600-$800 to do some audio upgrade in the future though.
7. I think the SR+ is a great value, the other car I seriously considered was the Accord Hybrid Touring, factoring in WA sales tax incentive (only the SR+ w/o FSD qualify) and federal tax saving the Accord will be $300 more. The looks, technology, and performance is unmatched in the $40,000 range. Even with SR+ I can still beat 90% of the cars at traffic lights.