I understand some old timers like
@Canuck and the OP
That's funny that I'm now considered an "old timer". When I joined in late 2013 the old timers were Roadster owners and early Model S adopters. I got my S in 2014, just before AP hardware was introduced. In those days, this was a fun place to visit and people were helpful and friendly. How times have changed.
I understand some old timers like
@Canuck and the OP here can't take this anymore when they are faced with reality and facts, because they failed to change with time and situation
I can take it -- that's not the issue.
You are correct that I don't change based on the "time and situation" like you do. I'm not a leaf blowing in the wind that goes with the flow. Instead, I look at the "reality and facts" which are: Tesla made the fist long range EV that is attractive and a real threat to ICE manufacturers. More importantly, it gives me some hope for my children's future, and all future generations. So I can't throw out the baby with the bathwater.
Or they kept their eyes closed for the love of their cars/Tesla/TSLA.
That's some strange logic you have. I guess if you have a child who does something bad, or even a few bad things, you place no weight on the good they have done in the past, and the love you have for them, but instead write them off. Not me.
I strongly disagree with your view of how we should evolve. I hope to evolve by pushing myself in the direction that makes the most sense, and not by the "time and situation".
But it is more to do with them than the forum, which is evolving as the company and its customer base evolves.
You were not here when this forum was predominately based on people helping people and learning new things. I used to really enjoy coming here and reading posts, learning things, giving Tesla credit when they've earned it, and criticism when they deserve it. In fact, I bet I've criticized Tesla here more than you, including my comments that you called an "emotional outburst" where I said this:
Now, don't get me wrong, AP2.0 owners have good reason to complain, since Tesla way oversold AP2.0, and I don't mind people complaining about it -- but there's certain people here who relish in bashing Tesla, and life's too short to come here since they've hijacked pretty much every thread and belittle people like Bonnie who has done so much for the EV movement. It's disrespectful and rude.
snippiness
Edit:
@bonnie You only had to read Canuck's emotional outburst in the other EAP thread 1-2 days ago.
It's odd that you need to tell Bonnie to read that thread when she was actively involved in it, even quoting my posts and rightly calling me out when I called some Americans "naive".
I also wish you would deal with the substance of what I said, and what you took issue with, rather than calling my posts an "emotional outburst", as if emotion is a bad thing. I'm Italian. I live my life with emotion and passion. I'm not a leaf blowing in the wind changing my mind based on the "time and situation". That's sound like a very passive and boring life to me.
To the OP: What can you do? I can think of a few options
a) Change with time
Now that's a good argument. Let's forget about everything else and just allow time to change our minds. Wind meet leaf -- no thinking required!
b) Increase your tolerance level to not bend out of shape on getting a few disagrees.
It's not about "Disagrees". In my "emotional outburst" posts, I said this:
I like it better when people disagree with me than when they agree with me if they are willing to debate the issue respectfully instead of just clicking "disagree" and saying "your logic is seriously flawed" without any rebuttal of substance. It's a cop out when you attack without substance.
In fact, the OP,
@jeffro01, and I disagree often, to the point we recently had a private exchange about our disagreements so as not to continue to derail a tread. I really enjoyed our back and forth and I think he did too. We were emotional, which is not a derogatory word to me like it is to you, and we talked about the
substance of the issues and actually found some common ground but agreed to disagree where we differed.
I also look at "Disagrees" as a childish, teenage, facebook type thing. If I disagree with you, I will tell you why with substance rather than hit the dislike button. When you agree there's no explanation needed. In my view, a disagree requires an explanation or it's just childish nonsense.
c) Request a "Pro Tesla echo chamber" to the site admin, where patting each other on the back is only thing allowed, and visit only that section.
Now we've hit the crux of your argument. We don't want a pro or anti Tesla chamber. We want to hear all comments, good and bad, about Tesla. But we don't want to come here and find the same people complaining about Tesla over and over and over again. I've really enjoyed my time here, and met some great people.
@ohmman even included me in his pioneering X and Airstream adventures, when he visited me with his wife and kids at my vacation home:
Ohmman's Airstream Adventures
That is why I am here -- but unfortunately this place is no longer the place it once was. Instead of meeting and helping people, and talking Tesla, both good and bad, this place is more often than not an anti-Tesla echo chamber, which is exactly what some people want since we are now told to ask for the opposite if we don't like it, when in fact some of us don't want it to be either.
That's likely why there's so few real old timers left.
I was getting testy from the negativity until I was tutored in how to filter the threads I see in conjunction with some selective ignoring of a couple of members. As a guess I ignore half a dozen people
That helps but it doesn't bring back what we once had here.
Agreed. Thanks
@jeffro01 for saying what so many of us were thinking. Even if this place is doomed to end up like much of the rest of the internet, at least we won't go down without articulating the sense of loss some of us feel. That's much better than just going with the flow, and changing with time, which makes absolutely no sense to me.
I predicted several years ago that the TMC forums would degrade substantially around the time Model 3 began first deliveries.
Yes, it was inevitable. This place is now like most forums, where the negative posters have taken over causing others to leave or be belittled. I guess it shouldn't be a surprise but it is really too bad, at least for some of us.
Can atheists attend?