I have got to believe there is a solution if presented in a certain way. Do they pay for your electricity? If so, arm yourself with knowledge and present how little it costs in electricity to charge and offer to pay a fair share. Or were they concerned about a charge cord being a trip hazard? There are remedies for that too! Try to give us exact reasons why they denied you. Tesla would provide them with wall charger(s) at the complex probably for free! ChargePoint is another company that works with apartments to provide charging. Contact them and let them "sell" your Building Management. If you don't know exactly why they denied you, find out so you can work at complying or proving to them why they should let you. Also you may have a legal leg to stand on to get them to let you charge. The old saying "When there is a will there's a way." Rather than feeling defeated, empower yourself with knowledge and go after what you want. In this case it is charging where you reside. Don't automatically resign yourself to take "no" as the "end all". Fight for what you need!
The issue is it may be O.K. for one person but then when/if two or three people or more want to charge the electrical system was never designed for EV charging. Where do you stop? I would think there may be a solution if only those who want to charge pay the complete cost of infrastructure upgrades for the building and all additional electrical cost.