Recap:
-Accessory Hitch upgraded to 2" from initial 1.X"
-Tow Package hitch also 2"
-Same hitch receiver for Accessory as for the Tow Package (the receiver is for both 3500 and 5000lbs based on wheel diameter; see picture in prev msg)
-Many Accesory Hitch orders have a wire harness on their Xs (Is this similar to the active spoiler freebie)
-Some also have Tow Package software (I personally have not remembered to check mine - what screen is this on?)
-No one has been able to confirm whether there is or is not additional structural difference between those who have ordered the accessory or tow packages, nor does anyone know how to tell at this point.
*I remember now, during delivery, that they told me not to try to tow anything over 3500 lbs with my accessory hitch. I was confused, as I told them I just wanted the accessory hitch, and didn't plan to tow anything. But I think they said that I could - up to 3500 lbs, but not up to the full 5000. Extra detail, doesn't shed much additional light on the above, but does support that there could be a structural difference between the packages. And that the accessory hitch is much more robust than initially advertised (I think up to 150 lbs or something).