I mean I'm as big of a Tesla fanboy as the next, but if you think buying a Model Y Performance puts you in some sort of special club I think you're gonna have to spend another 20-30k. Model Ys are as ubiquitous as a Camry these days and the only people that would look at the car and be like oh, that's got different wheels it must be fast as hell, probably are on this forum. It's not like BMW or Audi where at least their performance cars wear different kit.
BTW, no judgements here. I loved being one of the first 18k on the road, and have a new MYP coming on Tuesday, but in the mall parking lot today, every 20th car was a Tesla. Made me think, guess I'm not special anymore. Still have a Fisker Ocean Reservation if I need to scratch that itch next year I suppose.