Yup I certainly feel like I got taken. I'm deeply frustrated about the Autopilot features. There is another guy that ordered the same day as me, confirmed 2 days before me (I waited 2 days before confirming), but took delivery 5 days after me. He got the new sensors, I did not. My order was original scheduled for late October, but got moved up to Late September because I was close to the factory and they could tick another delivery off on their Q3 numbers. To add an insult to an injury, the exact same configuration is now $950 cheaper than it was when I ordered. Part of that is the removal of the parking sensors as a separate option, part of it is the price drop on the HPWC.
I was mildly disappointed about missing out on lane departure and speed assist. Missing out on ACC was a little more major, but not a major deal for me. I don't care about missing out on AWD (I wouldn't have bought it anyway). But missing out on the sensors that drive a ton of future upgrades on a car I intend to keep for 8 years really hurt. Knowing that I missed out by a few days and paid the same as people who got them, destroys my feeling of having made a good purchase.
To the people saying that cars get upgraded and that you shouldn't expect a 2014 to have the same features as a 2015, realize that both me and the guy who got his 5 days after me both got 2014s. I see this as the equivalent of a dealer have two 2014 cars on the lot, where the manufacturer added a feature standard midway through production, one car has the feature the other doesn't. They then sell both of these cars to two different people for the same price. The person that got the unexpected features is thrilled, the person that didn't feels taken. Technically, the dealer delivered exactly what he sold both of them. So technically the guy without the extra features has no room to complain. This of course is exactly the sort of behavior I expect from dealers. This is exactly the type of behavior I was led to believe Tesla didn't engage in. Technically legal but leaves the buyer walking away with a sleezy feeling about who they bought from.
With a traditional model year switch over you have some idea when the new model years are coming (towards the end of the year). When the new models show up the old models are discounted to be sold. In this case Tesla just started adding the features to cars, kept it quiet and then the buyer has no opportunity to make an educated decision about waiting. That's great for Tesla's bottom line. Not so great for consumers. If you'd asked me a month ago if I thought Tesla's direct model was good for consumers I would have said yes. Today, I don't think it really is better.
Tesla seems to be emulating Apple in this case, but Apple is not selling $100k cars. Plus Apple does it right. If you ordered an iPhone 5s slightly before the iPhone 6 announcement you'd still have gotten an iPhone 5s. The guy next to you that ordered at the same time also got an iPhone 5s. Nobody gets magically upgraded to an iPhone 6 for free. Ideally, Tesla would have announced Autopilot a month ago and put up the new ordering system. Told people with existing orders they would not get the new features. People with orders in process have a choice, let the order proceed and get the car on that schedule. Cancel the order, loose their deposit ($2,500) and place a new order. Tesla would end up with some cars as inventory cars they could sell at a $2,500 discount and not loose a dime from what they expected. People who bought those cars would feel like they got a good value. In other cases the car could be removed from production and Tesla just pockets $2,500. Everyone walks away happy, Tesla wins, etc etc..
The way this went down is a disaster for Tesla's image of a customer friendly company. It's a disaster for their effort to fight back against the dealers trying to force them into the dealer model.
I sympathize with the feelings here, but I must stress that at least from a European perspective, the model-year cut-off for the likes of Audi and BMW is also quite vague for factory orders. When most order, they will not know for sure which model-year they will get, because you can't know when the car is built. With wait times stretching into months, they can and often do spread on both sides of the usual two yearly change dates. There are similar stories of guys getting major changes or not getting them, depending on what day of the week their car went into production.
Exactly the same thing that happened to breser, has happened - at least in Europe - to people ordering cars, say, for factory delivery from Audi's Ingolstadt plant. I have followed closely many cases where this has been so and the complaints are similar and similarly understandable. Same order time, different production order around the cut-off week, perhaps even same day for the pick-up (e.g. some guys have been picking up their 2010 while a guy in the next circle is picking up a 2011), but different model year and different features accordingly. It is a game of luck.
I do agree Tesla is a little more unpredictable, though. With Audi or BMW or Mercedes, you know what the model-year cut-off at the production plant usually is - at least pretty well historically. Say, week 22 at Audi. Order after that date to make sure you get the latest options and it is a pretty safe bet. Although, there is usually another, mid-model-year date six months in, complicating things a little, and sometimes some bigger change pushes to change the model-year change for a particular model (e.g. a facelift), but overall there is somewhat more predictability in the traditional way. Tesla has been pushing changes "as they happen" for a couple of years now, from small to big, and that is somewhat different from the old boys.
In the U.S. market the model-year change is - if I understand correctly - far more pronounced. That is true at the dealer level and relates to the import process as well, but in Europe it is far less so in my experience, where I guess the comparison is similar to Tesla's home market comparison in the U.S. In Europe, factories makes changes throughout the year (except a little more predictably than a newcomer like Tesla) and European customers can't really tell when ordering from factory what their model-year is going to be and what the changes will entail. People talking of model-year generally might mean the date of the car's registration, not its factory model-year etc.
Personally, I'm driving a new P85 where I would have ordered both D and A with the trimmings, obviously. But mine is literally a vehicle to take me to the Model X on reserve (I bought the Model S dealer-specced which I never do, because I wanted to go electric so bad), so I don't mind and am enjoying the show in anticipation of getting to that Model X Design Studio one day. For me, these things will make the upgrade to the Model X even more enticing, while I get to drive a great car in the meanwhile. But that's just my side of it, and it doesn't apply to others. It is easy to not care as much if the car changing frequency is high (or if your appreciation of extra features in a car is low).
I get it that a guy with years planned into the ownership and every detail of an ever-improving (software-wise) vehicle understandably feels different and that is something Tesla would be wise to consider when planning their process further. Those new sensors will allow for a lot of software upgrades over time and that's something where Tesla is different from many manufacturers and makes it a double edged sword in this case. Having been on both sides of this game of luck, there is no easy recipe. Personally, I've been around enough with factory-ordered cars to not really care anymore. I've got lucky and unlucky enough times and it kind of stops mattering as you see and feel the ebb and flow of it from both sides - but that doesn't help at all the guy feeling stung about it today, of course.
People are also different, but as a tip that sometimes has helped me in the past: Giving yourself permission to change plans if need be. Say, you intended to keep the car for a decade, well, start making plans to swap it earlier. If you really feel like it, get it done and take the cost to the chin. You might also see that the process could also end in not swapping the car, because when you know you can swap it if you really need to, it might give you the peace of mind not to care. When you miss some feature, you know the option to buy into it is there for you, at least as a plan, and that in itself may help. You are no longer missing out, you are just waiting for the right time to buy in. And when you do swap, if you do, you might get some new features that older owners would not have, so there is that carrot to keep from swapping too early.