I'm also in the "Audi club" now....for the same reasons as your wife. I just ordered a Sportback. Lower range, but faster charging (150KW to 95%). See:
Also, free Charging at Electrify America/Canada for 2 years.
I really don't like the new X or S interior. Tesla is aiming at the minimalist market, and I'm not one of them. I want the comfort, style, and ride of a luxury car. The e-Tron gave it to me. The new X leaves me cold.
Disappointing, really. I've had my S for 6 years, and I'm giving it to my son to get him out of ICE. I've had a few issues with my S, but I'm very happy with my purchase. I'm currently a Director of the Ontario Tesla Owners' Club, and I'll be leaving it when I get my new ride. However, I'm staying on the "electric team".
A small note, in passing. The Audi e-Tron forum is packed full of former Tesla owners, that changed over for this, and quality/service issues. As other manufacturers introduce better EVs, Tesla better take note, and listen to those who leave, if they want to keep their dominance in the EV market.