Again, I recommend anyone who's suffering with this unsafe behavior to go to NHTSA.gov and spend 5 minutes filling out a complaint. NHTSA and OEMs both monitor these sites quite closely.
From what I've read online, nobody seems to really know what happens if you plug a radar sensor into one of these vision-only cars. It's just a guess on my part, but it seems likely that it won't do anything because the car will know it's supposed to be vision-only, but I can also imagine that the software stack might be able to accommodate whatever sensors are available. I just thought of this idea the other day, but I actually have access to an M3 at work that's equipped with radar. When I get a chance over the next couple weeks, I'm going to pull the radar off that car and temporarily install it into my car to see if some magic happens (my understanding is that all the 2021 cars still have the radar connector sitting there empty). I'll report the results back in this thread.