None of these ratings are reliable unless they are based on a true random sample of owners, with controls for bias. And as none take measurements that way it means none can be completed trusted. Reliable and rigorous research on auto reliability is very difficult and expensive to do, which is why no one does reliable and rigorous research.
Tesla knows how every car has performed, but they're not talking.
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The only other companies that might have a decent idea are the folks with a significant monetary interest in how the Model S does, and that would be Tesla's competitors.
Based on the evidence of the forum, as well as my personal experience I'd say the Model S is not very reliable. There doesn't seem to be anyone with high mileage that hasn't had a significant number of issues. Now of course anyone with high mileage likely had an early production car, so its quite possible that the ones rolling off the line now are quite reliable.
Honestly this isn't surprising. Designing a car to hit 0-60 in under 3 seconds is easy. Designing not just a car, but the entire supply chain and production process that can produce 50k cars a year, and not have any issues is ridiculously hard. Alot of that comes from experience too. If you've got a process that produces a part that fails one out of 100 cars, you could do a ton of testing and not catch it.