Induction motors do *NOT* work that way - you are thinking of a brushless permanent magnet motor, not an induction motor. For an induction motor generating torque while the rotor is stalled (which happens every time a Tesla starts moving from a stop) the field has to rotate relative to the (stalled) rotor to induce currents in the rotor. The torque is proportional to the lead or lag frequency (commonly known as the "slip"); i.e. the difference between the rotating field frequency and the 60 times the rotor RPM. When a Tesla is in "regen" (negative acceleration) the field frequency is less than the rotor frequency (negative torque) and when increasing velocity (positive acceleration) the rotor frequency is less than the field frequency. *All* of the stator windings are being driven whenever the motor is energized, not just some of them.
In hill hold mode the field drive currents and frequency will both generally be low, since it only has to provide sufficient torque to prevent rolling. The stress on the motor is far less than when performing rapid acceleration or at high speed (due to drag). For a simple example, imagine a Tesla weighing 5,000 pounds is stopped on a road with a 20 degree grade (this is the steepest paved road in the US:
Canton Avenue in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania). That requires about 1,700 pound feet of torque at the wheels, which is only about 176 pound feet at the rotor (assumes a gear reduction of 9.7:1 and no losses). This is a small fraction of the torque that the Tesla motors can produce, and it is also on the steepest paved road.
In summary, all of the poles and all of the phases are operating when an AC induction motor is producing torque. The Tesla induction drive motors have 4 poles and 3 phases, and the connections from the inverter to the motor are done with only 3 heavy conductors (3 phases). And there is no time when only one phase or pole is being driven with the others being inactive. All phases and poles are driven or else none of them are.