I don't think we can compare S85D's with S85, P85, P85D because the S85D only has the smaller drive unit. As far as I can tell, none of these issues have been present on the smaller drive unit. Am I wrong?
I believe I read somewhere that the drive unit problems were more common on the performance models but they weren't unheard of on the standard Model S. I think the way people drive the car is a factor in the problem. Jack rabbit starts pump a lot of current very suddenly through drive units. It's one of the most exiting things about driving a Model S, but it does stress things more than driving like any other car.
I would guess if there was a way to chart how often a car is driven gently vs jack rabbit starts there would be a correlation between DU replacements and these driving patterns. I would also guess that Performance owners are more likely to accelerate hard more often than owners of the "lesser" models. Though that is just speculation on my part.