If Tesla updated the car's software to add a "circuit sharing" setting on the touchscreen, the car's software could check to see if two or more Teslas are on the same WiFi sub-network and if so, they could communicate with each other to avoid simultaneously drawing more than the highest charge setting selected on the touchscreen of any one of the Teslas in the group.
This would allow two, three or any number of Teslas to share a single breaker of any size. It could also allocate charging between Teslas based on SOC.
This would not require any changes to the HPWC and would work with all existing HPWCs and/or UMCs. It may also comply with the NEC, but I'm no FlasherZ (at best, I'm a Flasher C or D)[emoji2]