I think teslabj0rn was using a RWD tesla in Norway and didn't complain about it.
To be frank... I'm torn on the awd myself and largely due to price. I want the same upgrades you do, but I'm concerned that if I add all wheel drive, the 35 base turns more into 44, then doc and delivery brings it to 45, and then sales tax can bring it up to 48-49. That's an expensive car! If the full federal tax credit is still there, great, it'll come down a little to 41 or so.
Without AWD, I'm thinking it might be closer to 38-39k.
For me, I won't get this car without a range upgrade or autopilot. The winter package is minor in cost so I'm not concerned about that. I'm hoping the price of awd, autopilot, and range upgrade is significantly less than the premiums they charge on the S.
If it's not, there's a chance I'll cancel my order. The 215 miles of range just won't cut it for me. I need 300+.