You could just take the $100 loss on the original order and start "fresh" with a brand new order. I did this because of a couple of reasons myself.... reasons that I learned from buying my Model 3 exactly 11 months ago.
Whether Tesla tracks the number of rejected delivery attempts on a particular order (and holds it against you, like moving you further down the queue), most likely starting over with a brand new order should negate this. But I doubt Tesla would take something that personally against someone, and would be more about the profit margin and trying to get you into a car to meet their EOQ numbers.