There's not a lot to discuss regarding Tesla being the EV market leader. Yes, they are, no question. I would say Nissan is second with an EV they've been making for nearly as long as Tesla has been making them, but with much more limited goals. Seems Nissan was entering the market cautiously, like the others only they are more so. Clearly GM, in spite of having a competitive product, has decided not to push sales on their Bolt so they are a more distant than expected third.
As I have said many times, the biggest factor differentiating Tesla from all the others is not the car, but the charging network. I'd like to tell the GM chiefs, "It's about the charging, stupid!"
You are basically the equivalent of what we used to call in mental health circles a "one issue therapist" - there is only one issue that's important, and you just hammer away at that! All else is irrelevant. You insist, and claim to speak for the vast majority of consumers (without any scientific or empirical data to support such claims) that charging is the only meaningful issue extant in the EV vs ICE world.
Please . . . speak for yourself, but don't presume to be speaking for everyone else, esp. not here - it feels more than a little presumptuous. Some of us actually like
driving a responsive vehicle, and the Model 3 is a driver's car, much more so frankly than the S or the X. There are many reasons why the 3 is popular - it's very good looking, goes like stink, handles extremely well, wins outright all the NHTSA crash tests, has a unique and well integrated operating system interface, the best current autopilot system, and is reasonably close to autonomous driving (which despite your other statements about it, is a selling point for quite a few people.) It also has the best charging network, is very cost efficient and low maintenance, and by all account, the best BMS, and therefore probably the best battery longevity, which is a HUGE issue for most buyers - one of the first questions they ask in fact ("How long do the batteries last").
Among the most telling data points are experiences reported by women driving the Model 3. Take my wife - someone who hates technology (and she typically blows it up - the current death toll stands at 4 cell phones, 3 laptops, one Honda key FOB, and 1 Ipod) and who previously regarded all vehicles as utilitarian ways just to get from point A to point B. After a very brief period of initial skepticism, this master of technological disaster just LOVES driving the Model 3. And can't stand to drive anything else, due to how slow, unresponsive, and primitive other (ICE) vehicles feel (that includes a Lexus IS and a Honda). We have our fingers crossed that the car can survive my wife's talent for blowing s--- up.
So it's not just the charging network. Like I said earlier, you seem to have restricted vision of the big picture, hyperfocused on all those details. Hopefully your view can expand over time.