Well, maybe we should lobby Tesla to install a couple of Destination Chargers when they install Super Chargers at actual destinations. I'm not complaining about having to stop along the way to charge, but to delay getting to sleep and then having to wake up an hour earlier to finish charging before a 13 hour drive is not a good thing. I may have AP, but I still need to be awake when I drive (especially since the AP likes to swerve into Nevada's off ramps...)
While it may be hard to not think of them as chargers at your destination when they are in your motel parking lot, try thinking of them as a "nearby supercharger" that just happens to be in the parking lot. I've happened to charge at Superchargers in a hotel lot before as a stop on a road trip, but not actually staying at the motel.
But what if the supercharger in that town were instead near mall a mile down the street?
In that case, you'd STILL be delayed getting to sleep and have to get up early, as well as perhaps even delaying getting your family checked in to the hotel or loaded up in the car to leave. AND you likely have to stay with the car for each session, unless you wanted walk back and forth to the hotel.
In this case, you get to simply walk down to the parking lot, and then you can be back in the hotel doing other things during the charging sessions.