Humans tend to form opinions about product quality at a microscopic level. If we have a poor experience with the quality of Company A's product, we tend to believe that Company A's product is terrible. If we have a great experience with the quality of Company B's product, we say that Company B's product is excellent.
At a macroscopic view, neither is correct--the reality is somewhere in the middle. Are most carmakers going to exceed Tesla's current state of manufacturing quality? Many will. They've been around much longer and they're not ramping up at an insane pace.
However, in most cases Tesla will make things right. I have some gap and flush issues on my car, but hey--I'm VIN 1653. I expected issues like that buying an early car. Does it irk me? Yes. Paying this much for a car, you expect the same quality as any other high end car.
Having said that though, no other car on the planet can give me the same overall experience as this car. It's about the total package. You have to be willing to sacrifice a little for that privilege. Tesla will get better, the cars will continue to improve, and hopefully all the issues with your car will be improved.
It just comes with the territory.