Wife and I went to Menlo on Saturday afternoon to be able to spend some quality time in Model S. She HATES the gear selector. She wishes it would be like the Roadster as it feels more futuristic and is more intuitive than a stalk. We both like the door handles - we even got to play w/ them on Saturday. They work well. I agree with whoever posted earlier that if you hit the "unlock" button on the fob the driver's handle should extend immediately and if you hit it again then all handles should extend. That way you don't have to "wait" for the handles to extend. There's definitely some lost opportunity in the center storage area and one of the salespeople there on Saturday said they're going to be working on that area.
We're also worried about the distraction factor of the center screen. Drivers can't even talk on the phone or use a standard GPS while driving. WTF will happen when they're surfing the web and doing e-mail? I think my wife shocked the salesperson when she asked, "where's the button to blank the center screen?"
On the plus side, we like the exterior, the frunk, and LOVE the panoramic roof. Interested to drive it, as looking at it, it's quite a large vehicle. Hopefully it'll feel small on the road.
Oh, if Tesla is reading this, make sure there are LATCH anchors for car seats!