If you're looking for an apartment, PlugShare is probably a good place to start.
If you're looking for a home, it's going to be much more difficult. We're lucky and our landlord doesn't really care what we do, so we've installed charging stations in our carport.
For house-hunting, I recommend looking for places on Zillow or some other real estate app and seeking out homes that have electrical infrastructure that's conducive to a simple EVSE setup. Things to look for are an electrical meter and circuit breaker panel that are either in the garage or near the driveway. If you can install an EVSE near the electrical panel, you can probably talk your landlord into letting you have an electrician do it. Be sure to tell them it's an upgrade to the home that will attract a broader tenant base. The least expensive option is usually to install a NEMA 14-50 outlet below the electrical panel.