Yes, 12mph is too slow, and I said it should go faster. In the commit case, going up to 25mph seems fine. In the "waiting" case, I think 15-20mph would be fine and is completely realistic. There's no need to get up to 25mph in that case; it's possible to cross in about 5 seconds with a reasonably rapid increase to 15-20mph. (Again, right now, it's limited to about 12mph, and it attains that speed slowly, and it takes 6-7 seconds to clear the traffic lanes in that case.)
I'll see if I can get an example on my ULT, even though I don't want to stop in the median (don't really like the strategy in most cases, though Chuck's is fine due to the median width), as it's narrower. I can do it with minimal traffic. The requirement is that it be smooth and reassuring.
Here's another link to the earlier example with traffic, but I didn't stop. Though I did have to stop accelerating, to "thread in." So it's somewhere in between. It's about 4.5 seconds to cross here. Started at 2:48, finished crossing at around 2:52.5. I got up to about 17mph before accelerating again.
I could have crossed faster if I were committing, of course - because I was being cautious here (just as well because the BMW changed into the target lane as I went!). But anyway in the "stopping" case with an ample median width, 5 seconds to clear seems fine. That would be a 20% reduction. Just increase all speeds by 30%, peaking at 16mph.