The fuses I have removed in my car in the passenger kick panel are ATR Micro II Fuses. These should be readily available at your local car store. The panel also has at least two other size fuses, one of which I believe is a ATR Mini Fuse. There may be additional fuse sizes.
As far as which fuse for your issues, as I say, there are some differences between the fuse diagram and recent Model S cars, so it may not be 100% accurate. I have not found an accurate chart. I would look at F233 - Door Controls Left - Door Handle Left Front, 10A, and it looks like it may be an ATM Mini fuse according to the chart, if it is correct. I do not understand the chart having two 10A "fuses" at F233 location, which also includes Door Controls Right - Door Handle Right Front. Are there two physical fuses at location F233, or does the single fuse control both Left and Right Controls? This is confusing to me. Good luck!