Just got off the phone with tech support and said he was pushing out the 1.30 update to my connector, but that this will NOT be the final solution. However, the new update will allow me to charge at a higher rate (i.e. 32 amps). He said I will need to wait for 2 weeks to get an email with a return label THEN a week later I would receive the new connector unless some other issue is found with my charger; in that case, I would get a phone call within a week.
The reason for the long process is that Tesla needs to confirm with the manufacture of the connector that the new unit being sent to me will not fail like the first one. Sounds like a manufacturing defect that will NOT be fixed with a software update.
Are you calling or emailing support? I can't seem to get a hold of anyone on the weekends.