While the "idea" with powerwalls is "live like normal" for most people, a couple months ago or so, I (along with my wife) sat down and made a list of stuff to unplug / turn off, if there was an "unplanned outage of indeterminate length".
Wife and I went room by room and made a google doc (which would be accessible with our cellphones) of "Family room -- Unplug this, and this and this, and turn off this and this. Dining room, turn off this and this. Go flip breakers labeled XXX / YYY / ZZZ / AAA off" etc.
In short unplanned outage, we would do nothing (we have had a couple of those, less than 30-45 minutes). If we had an outage of indeterminate length, "the list" is there so we can shed loads, and just as importantly, if "I" am not home, my wife has an easy to find, room by room list of what we worked out we could do without / shed as far as loads.
Things like, our family room TV is a huge energy hog that I normally dont care about, but in a long outage, we would move to the bonus room and watch TV there on the LED TV that uses like 1/4th the power. Its still large, it has access to our media server, etc.
I am rambling now I realize, but I think making a list of loads to shed is a good idea, especially if the decision maker has a plan that maybe the significant other is not aware of, fully, etc. There is usually one person who "handles all this stuff" (and its not gender specific), but I think its a good idea for the person who does that to make a list if they have others they may want to "execute on their behalf".
I dont know how far down we can shed loads, but if we had to, we could get down to just the 2 fridges and lights. I got powerwalls so I dont "have" to do that, but I certainly could if the worst happened.