No, and no. Do we need to recap the thread?huh? you're complaining because you plugged your car into some random connector and were charged for it?
1. This was not a random one. It is an apartment complex the OP visits frequently as a guest.
2. It was in the area for guest parking and labeled for guest use.
3. It was separate from the ones reserved for residents.
4. This is a Tesla wall connector, which up until this thread was not thought to have the capability of metering and charging enabled yet.
5. On repeated uses before, it always was free up until recently.
6. There was no form of activation which would indicate something that is metered for pay.
7. There was no announcing that it was going to charge or what the fees were.