Norbert
TSLA will win
I would have preferred it was not on my first drive!!
What wasn't clear to me from your description is if you consulted the "projected range" on the energy display (you are only mentioning the "rated range"). I'd have thought that it would have shown you soon enough to use the SuperCharger in Gilroy. And it isn't clear whether you enabled sleep mode and still lost that much range at your friend's house.
At least those are the two things I'd have thought might have helped in your situation.